March Photo a Day Instagram Challenge

I've been a member of the Instagram community for a very long time. I'd remember seeing these monthly challenges come up before, but I never really took the time to try 'em out. Well, here's me trying it out. I hope I can stick to it. 

Day 1-"Up"
I got this plant in honor of my babe. I loved it's colors and it just makes me smile to look at it. I hung it up on our patio where I can see it right out my bedroom window. 

Day 2- "Fruit"
Funny how this made me make a better dessert choice while eating out. A cup of fruit it was.

Day-3 "Your Neighborhood"
Every time the hubby and I take a walk in the neighborhood I can't help but smile when we get to Loyola High School. I love the architecture of it. It is absolutely stunning and very well kept. 

Day 4- "Bedside"
This is my side of the bed. ZzZzzzzzzz

Day 5- "Smile"
This is a pic of a few months ago, but it's one I like because I'm smiling. It's something that's kind of hard to do at the moment, but in time I'll be able to do again.

Day 6- "5 p.m."
It was time to head out onto the garden and water my pretty flowers :)

Day 7- "Something You Wore"
I truly believe you act according to how you dress. I wanted to feel better, so I put on my cute boots and headed out. 

Day 8- "window"
It's much to pretty outside to sit inside, so I came outside and watched my little bird. I managed to catch the window behind.

Day 9- "Red"
I was way too busy and forgot to take a picture for the day, so I found this one that I took a couple months back. It's a beautiful red sunset :)

Day 10- "Loud"
I went hiking with my hubby and pups. It was amazingly beautiful out. On our way home I stopped by the shore and took this picture. I felt that the sound of peace was incredibly loud and beautiful at the moment.

Day 11- "Someone You Talked To Today"
I truly believe communication is everything. My hubby and I talk every single day.  :)

Day 12- "Fork"
Came home to find my hubby cooking one of our fave Mexican dishes... cheese enchiladas :) So I put a fork in there and BAM! LOL

Day 13- "A Sign"
With everything that has happened I look for signs everywhere.... hope these come true.

Day 14- "Clouds"
It's supposed to rain soon, so the clouds are surely coming out in full force.

Day 15- "Car"
Not really inspired to take pictures of cars, but lucked out when we saw this one at LACMA, so here ya go.

Day 16- "Sunglasses"
It's raining. Not a sunglasses kind of day, but love how you can see the reflection of the clouds in them.

Day 17- "Green"
I love how my seeds are showing great improvement! I have a "green" thumb y'all!

No more 30 day Challenge... I suck at 'em...

Well, I think it's safe to say that I have failed at the 30 day challenge :(.

It's just hard for me to get on this blog once I'm at work. I've been pretty busy just getting everything prepared for the kiddos and staff. And then when I'm not at work I'm out on my walks.... I think this is actually the first time I actually sit down at the computer this week. So yeah, that's my excuse... so forgive me for my epic failure and being MIA this month.

30 Day Challenge-Day 13

A date you'd like to go on.

HmMmMMmMmm.... I would love to go on a date through Italy. Just the hubs and I. Seeing all the beauty Italy has to offer. Dining at a nice, but casual restaurant and dancing the night away. I see us staying up past midnight just gazing at the view...

30 Day Challenge-Day 12

Things you want to say to an ex.

Hmmmm. I've been blessed. I don't recall having any horrible ex stories to tell. However, two of them do come to mind. And all I want to say is "THANK YOU!"

The first we'll call "Green Eyes." Why, well he had the most gorgeous green eyes! lol. He was my "primer amor." My High School love. We were together for years. Inseparable really. Because of him I never doubted myself through high school. He really took care of me and was there when I needed him. We broke up after HS jokingly. Really, it was stupid and for a while I regretted starting that joke, but I know see that things happen for a reason and well, we're both happy now. But really I don't think I ever got the chance to thank him for being a true gentleman and showing me what love was.

The second I'd like to say thank you to is "Bad Boy." We were together a few months. He was the complete opposite of "green eyes." He was more adventurous and really trouble just followed him. However, he was a good person on the inside. We would go hiking for hours and then go play at the arcades just because. I had so much fun with him. I felt alive and up for anything. Seriously, he asked me to marry him, but I couldn't do it. I loved how he made me feel, but I knew I wasn't ready. Sadly, I ended it with him, but he came into my life at a time of uncertainty in which I was barely getting over the ex and he managed to help me move on. I thank him for his wonderful sense of adventure and awesome spirit.

I know what your thinking... what no drama? hahahah No really, there was here and there, but at this point in my life the drama isn't worth mentioning. These two guys made me happy at the time we were together and for one reason or another we aren't together anymore. It's for the better. I'm happy now.

30 Day Challenge-Day 11

Your current relationship.

Well, I'm married. Have been for the past 8 years. We'll be 9 in December. We've had our ups and downs, but as time passes we've learned to understand each other better and have really learned how we work as a couple. We don't have any kids, but the subject has been luring around for a couple of years, but because of my PCOS had been postponed. But as of last week we have decided to officially try to get pregnant again. It's going to be a lot of work because of this darn PCOS, but we can't help but be super excited about it. We'll start working on it as soon as this period of mine ceases (which should be any minute now). So excited :) and nervous. . .

Wish us luck!

30 Day Challenge-Day 10

Your views on drugs and alcohol.

If you've read my bucket list, you've read that I'd like to get drunk one day. I mean, I drink socially here and there, but have never ever gotten drunk. Most beers taste like crap to me and margaritas are just full of unnecessary calories. So yeah, I don't see anything wrong with getting a little buzzed while having a good time. I just haven't been able to accomplish such a feeling. But... and here's the big But. I don't think drinking is for everyone. Some people are prone to alcoholism and that just isn't at all good. I've witnessed perfectly wonderful people lose themselves into alcohol and it just isn't something that I would like a loved one or anyone for that matter to go through. I also have no respect for people who choose to drink and drive. It just isn't worth it. Getting yourself hurt or hurting an innocent bystander is just horrible.

Now drugs.... well if you guessed it, I haven't done it either. In the past I had the opportunity to try weed, but really I have a lot of self control. I simply said "no". And my response was respected. I have friends that do smoke though and it's their choice and I don't hate them for that, but I'd love it if they didn't. I can't however tolerate the use of any other drug. I just don't get it. I don't get why I would introduce a harmful substance into my body. It baffles me to see such talented artists and people destroy their lives over a high. It really is so sad for me to watch. Thankfully, no one close to me is into that though.

30 Day Challenge-Day 9

Your last kiss

My last kiss ey? Well, I'm a happily married girl, so it was earlier today as my hubby said good morning to me. Nothing passionate like in the novelas, but still nice and soft and full of amore... lol. Gosh, I sound so corny sometimes :) lmao

30 Day Challenge-Day 8

Something you're currently worrying about.

Since Aunt Flo decided to make a recurrence earlier this week I started thinking again about having a baby. I sincerely worry that I'll never have a baby of my own. It's funny because until recently it was outta sight, outta mind. And now that thought made it's way back into my mind. I don't think it ever left, but it sure did hide out for a bit. Not gonna stress on it though... if it happens it will.... but I'll do everything I physically can to help nature out :).... (crosses fingers, legs, and anything crossable... lol).

30 Day Challenge-Day 7

Your Opinion on Cheating on People:

I don't think cheating is ever justifiable. I know there's temptation out there and what seems better hardly ever is. Cheating is exciting because you're doing it in secret and in reality you're not dealing with the real person. You're dealing with the adventurous side of them. As much as it would hurt for Manuel to ask for a divorce, I would prefer he told me upfront that his feelings for me changed as opposed to cheat on me behind my back and live a lie with me.

30 Day Challenge-Day Six

The person you like and why you like them:

My hubby Manuel in ToonTown

This is my husband Manuel. He and I have been married for what seems like an eternity but is really 9 years in December.

I love and adore him, but I also like who he is. He is a hard working man who I truly believe has my best interest in mind. Manuel is old school. With that I mean he is in this relationship for life. He values our marriage and is always there for me and my family. But he is also hard-headed. He will never admit when he's wrong! That gets me sooooo mad at times, but then I remember that who he is as a person; as a human being outweighs "the little things." He has such a kind heart and believes in solidarity as a couple. I've learned to be a better person through him. For that and MANY more reasons I  love, adore, like, and most of all respect him and I thank God for placing him in my life.

30 Day Challenge-Day Five

5 Things that irritate you about the opposite sex/same sex:

1. Fakeness: I can't stand people who are fake. I don't mean implants... I mean fake as in pretend to be someone who they're not. This is not a movie.... this is real life... keep it real! Like they say "You ain't gotta lie to kick it!" hahahah
2. Chismosos/Gossipers: This is mostly women, but men do it more and more and really it aint cute! I mean a little gossip here and there is fine, but if you're the kind of person who lives off of it and feels the need to throw everybody under the bus then I don't need nor want you in my life. 
3. Mosca Muertas/Victims: I get it. There are naive people in this world. I get it. But there are also those people who love to pretend that they wouldn't hurt a fly and as soon as you bring your guard down they are not afraid to stab you in the back. There's also those people who ALWAYS complain about how nothing good ever happens to them. I truly believe that you gotta get on that horse and teach it who's boss. Only then will you be in control of your life.
4. Attention-Whores: Hahaha... I love that. Seriously, people who crave so much attention get on my last nerve. Trust me people if you're that interesting people will come to you no matter what... just chill and be yourself. :)
5. Disrespecting People: I like to think that I treat all people with respect. I don't think I'm better than anyone else because really we're all different and each have something special about each other. But there are people out there who get off on treating others in a disrespecting manner. Personally, I don't think it's funny when you make fun of a homeless person or someone with a disability. It just makes me sad for you. So DON'T do it! :/

30 Day Challenge-Day Four

What you wear to bed?

I don't use PJ's. I don't think I own any either. Maybe I should get me some. So in the meantime, I use the t's that don't fit me anymore. Nothing sexy... not at all. Boo for me :(

30 Day Challenge-Day 3

What kind of person attracts you?

Hmmm. I am very picky as to whom I choose to get close to. Personally I enjoy people who have kind hearts, but do not play the "victim". You see, playing the victim or like they say in Español "la mosca muerta" really irks me! I love people who are go getters and smile in the face of nay-sayers. I like people who are sincere and fun to be around. People with a good sense of humor are always on my team. I like people who value their familias and friendships. Basically, well rounded individuals who know when to work hard and when to let loose.

30 Day Challenge-Day 2

DAY 2-How Have You Changed in the Last Two Years?

• I've changed a whole lot from two years ago. I truly feel like I'm a completely different person.I no longer say yes to everyone's requests. For example, for a long time I stopped whatever I was doing or change my plans to accommodate my family or friends. I did it because I loved them or cared for them, but it became extremely exhausting.

• I took charge of my health. I was letting PCOS beat me. I was letting PCOS define who I would be. Now I'm much healthier and happier. I began working out and eating much healthier. Before it would be nearly impossible for me to lose a single pound, but now I can honestly say I've been able to figure out the trick to living with PCOS and lose weight. It's hard, but I've been quite successful. God has granted me the strength and willpower to succeed.

• I look different. I've lost 37 pounds and counting. Because of PCOS I lived for many years with dark blotches all over my skin. It was embarrassing! Now I only have a small patch on my chest that's slowly fading away. I am so happy to finally look normal. It really is the little things that make me happy :)

• I'm happier. Not that I wasn't before, because God had always blessed me with a loving family, but I'm HAPPIER. I'm certainly more confident and self-assured than ever before. As I type this I can't help, but feel good about my accomplishments. 

I'm glad I made these changes. (Excuse me while I pat myself on the back!...LOL)

30 Day Challenge-Day 1

Yesterday as I was bored to death going through my Twitter timeline I came up on a link for a 30 day Challenge. It looked like a good one, so I'm gonna take it on. should be fun :)


DAY 1-Weird things you do when you're alone
When I'm alone I'm at my most comfortable. I'll dance and sing while cleaning. Sometimes if I'm really into it I'll even interview myself. You know as if I was a famous celebrity... lol. I've done that since I was little. I really do get a kick out of it. And sometimes, on hot humid days I'll walk around naked just to prove to myself that I can do it. Weird. I know. LOL.